READING PRACTICE
When studying foreign speech, don’t forget about body language!

学习外国语言时,别忘了身体语言!

Something as simple as a smile can display friendliness in one culture, embarrassment in another,
impatience in a third. Even silence means different things in different places.

有些动作,简单如一个微笑,可以在第一种文化中表示友好,第二种中表示尴尬,第三种中表示不耐烦。
甚至沉默在不同的地方也有不同的意味。

Language learners will put a lot of time (and money) into mastering the vocabulary and structure of a
foreign language without ever considering these non-linguistic parts of communication.

语言学习者投资了大量的时间(和金钱)去掌握一门外语的词汇和语法结构,却从来没有考虑过这些在沟
通过程中和语言学无关的方面。

To help you master these significant parts of communication – or simply avoid making an embarrassing
fauxpas (mistakes) – here are four non-verbal traits that vary from culture to culture...

为了帮助大家掌握这些交流中的重要方面——或者只是简单地避免失态——以下是四种在多个国家文化
中各不相同的身体语言……

Gestures

手势

When trying to communicate through a language barrier, it’s natural to use gestures as a way of
illustrating your point. We assume it’s helpful, since our words are being visually reinforced. Hand motions
are, however, culturally relative, and the wrong gesture can inadvertently lead to confusion or offence.

尝试战胜语言障碍交流的时候,自然而然地就会用手势作为一种描述自己观点的方式。我们认为这会有所
帮助,因为这样一来我们说的话会在视觉上得以强调。然而,手势和文化相关,错误地使用手势会在无意
中带来交流中的困惑或冒犯。

The thumbs-up sign is equivalent to the middle finger in Greece and Sardinia. Tapping your finger to
your temple is a gesture to show memory in North America, but suggests insanity in Russia. Even
nodding yes or shaking one’s head no can be misunderstood abroad. The yes-no gestures are reversed
in countries like Bulgaria and Albania. In Turkey, “no” is gestured by nodding the head up and back.

在希腊和撒丁岛,竖大拇指等同于竖中指。用手指敲太阳穴,在北美表示记忆,在俄罗斯则表示精神错乱,
甚至连点头肯定或者摇头否定在国外也可以被误解。这个肯定和否定的方式在诸如保加利亚和阿尔巴尼亚
这样的国家是反着的。在土耳其,否定是通过上下点头表示的。

It’s not just the individual gestures that can cause miscommunication, but the rate of gesturing. Some
societies, like Italy and Spain, are known for talking with their hands. Others are more reserved with
body movement as a form of politeness. In parts of East Asia, gesturing is considered boorish behaviour,
and would be rude in a professional setting.

不仅是这些单个的手势可以造成错误传达,还有手势的使用程度。在有些国家,像意大利和西班牙,
人们以用手势交谈著称。其他国家在使用身体语言方面则更加保守以表示礼貌。在有些东亚地区,
使用手势被认为是粗鲁的行为,而且在职业场合中会很无礼。

Silence

沉默

Though it can feel like a void in communication, silence can be very meaningful in different cultural
contexts. Western cultures, especially North America and the UK, tend to view silence as problematic.
In our interactions at work, school, or with friends, silence is uncomfortable. It is often perceived as a
sign of inattentiveness or disinterest.

尽管沉默感觉上是交流的空缺,它却可以在不同的文化背景中充满含义。西方文化中,尤其在北美和英国,
倾向于将沉默看做有疑问的。平时在工作,学校以及和朋友的交流互动中,沉默是让人不舒服的。它通常被
当作不在意或者不感兴趣的表现。

In other cultures, however, silence is not viewed as a negative circumstance. In China, silence can be
used to show agreement and receptiveness. In many aboriginal cultures, a question will be answered
only after a period of contemplative silence. In Japan, silence from women can be considered an
expression of femininity.Though the North American/European instinct may be to fill the silence, this
can be cross-culturally perceived as pushy and arrogant.

然而,在其他文化中,沉默却不是负面的反应。在中国,沉默可以用来表示认同和接受。在许多土著文化中,
一个问题提出后,只有在沉默中思考之后,才会有人回答。在日本,女性的沉默被看作是女性气质的展现。
尽管北美/欧洲人的直接反应是去填补沉默的空缺,这在其他文化中却会被认为是爱出风头或者自大的表现。

Touch

身体接触

Britain, along with much of Northern Europe and the Far East, is classed as a “non-contact” culture,
in which there’s very little physical contact in people’s daily interactions. Even accidentally brushing
someone’s arm is grounds for an apology. By comparison, in the high-contact cultures of the Middle East,
Latin America, and southern Europe, physical touch is a big part of socialising.

英国以及大多数北欧和远东国家,被归为“没有身体接触”的文化,因为人们的日常互动中几乎没有身体接触。
甚至不小心擦到别人的手臂也必须要道歉。与之形成对比的,是中东,拉丁美洲和南欧等这些人与人之间有
着频繁身体接触的国家——身体接触是社交活动中的很大一部分。

What’s more, there are different standards for who touches whom and where. In much of the Arab world,
men hold hands and kiss each other in greeting, but would never do the same with a woman. In Thailand
and Laos, it is taboo to touch anyone’s head, even children.

此外,关于谁和谁接触以及接触哪个部位都有不同的标准。在大多数阿拉伯世界,男性之间会在问候的时候
握手并亲对方,但绝不会对女性做同样的事情。在泰国和老挝,触摸任何人的头部,甚至小孩子,都是禁忌。

In South Korea, elders can touch younger people with force when trying to get through a crowd, but
younger people can’t do the same. Naturally, these different standards of contact can lead to
misunderstanding. An Argentinian may see a Scandinavian as cold and aloof, while the Scandinavian
may see the Argentinian as pushy and presumptuous.

在南韩,年长者想要穿过人群时可以使些力气去碰触年轻人,但是年轻人不能这样做。这些不同的标准自
然可能引发误解。一个阿根廷人也许认为斯堪的纳维亚人冷漠,然而这个斯堪的纳维亚人则可能认为阿根
廷人自大冒昧。

Eye Contact

眼神接触

In most western countries, frequent eye contact is a sign of confidence and attentiveness. We tend to
assume that a conversation partner who looks away is either disengaged or lying. Of course, this is
not the standard around the world.

在大多数西方国家,频繁的眼神接触是自信和专注的表现。人们倾向于认为眼神飘离的谈话者要么不在意,
要么在说谎。当然,这绝不是世界标准。

In many Middle Eastern countries, same-gender eye contact tends to be more sustained and intense
than the western standard. In many Asian, African, and Latin American countries, however, this unbroken
eye contact would be considered aggressive and confrontational. These cultures tend to be quite
conscious of hierarchy, and avoiding eye contact is a sign of respect for bosses and elders. In these
parts of the world, children won’t look at an adult who is speaking to them, and nor will employees to
their bosses.

在很多中东国家,同性间的眼神接触比起西方国家会更多更久。然而,在很多亚洲,非洲和拉丁美洲国家,
这种不间断的眼神接触会被认为是充满侵略和对抗意味的。这些国家很在意等级,避免眼神接触是对老板
和年长者表示尊重。在这些地区,孩子不会盯着对他们讲话的大人看,员工也不会这样看老板。



Twitter上最流行:老外们的分手短信

No.1

“It's Not You It's Me.”

“不是你的问题,是我的问题。”

(标准分手开场白啊……)

No.2

“I'm sure you've met my new girlfriend, she's been your best friend for 8 years.”

“我相信你一定见过我的新女友了,她可是你八年来最好的朋友。”

(这个也太不厚道了!)

No.3

“My hamster just passed away, I just need some space right now.”

“我养的仓鼠刚刚去世了,所以我现在需要一点空间。”

(这仓鼠和唐伯虎家的小强有得一拼!)

No.4

The only thing worse than being alone, is being with you.”

“这世上只有一件事情比单身一人更糟糕,那就是和你在一起。”

(这个忒狠了点吧?多伤人自尊啊?)

No.5

“Have I told you lately how much I am in love with you? No? Think about it, have a great life.”

“我最近有没有跟你说过我有多爱你?没有吧?想想这是为什么。记得要好好活下去。”

(这是反转剧吗?)

No.6

“My new year’s resolution is to get an upgrade in everything. So…”

“我的新年计划就是一切都要重新升级,所以……”

(一切尽在不言中……)

no.7

“My husband just got back from jail.”

“我老公马上就要出狱了。”

(这是哪个大哥的女人吧?)

no.8

“You're not Canadian. This isn't going to work out.”

“你不是加拿大人,所以一切都玩完了。”

(这句是万能句式啊,只要改个国籍就成。)

No.9

“…So you wanna tell me about your 7 kids?”

“所以,你想跟我聊你的七个孩子是吗?”

(七个孩纸?这是在演白雪公主和七个小矮人吗?)

No.10

“We need to talk… ”

“我们谈一谈吧。”

(先抑后扬的句式,后面一般都是上面第一句话“不是你的问题,是我的问题。”)



The 18 most effective / incentive friends words
激励朋友最有效的18句话



人生在世尽是不如意,我们经常会面临学业,事业和生活的三重打击。但是,唯独真正的朋友不会打击你。
他们会帮助你,鼓励你,将来会是你事业的伙伴,心灵的密友。仔细想一下,你周围有这样的朋友吗?
Life is full of disappointments; we often face the triple whammy of academic, career and life.
However, only true friends will not fight you. They will help you and encourage you; that would be your
career partner, a close friend of the soul. Think for a moment, you are surrounded by such a friend?

1. Pull yourself together。
振作起来。

2. Keep your chin up。
别灰心。

3. Don't let it get you down. It will be over with soon。
别为此烦恼。事情很快就会过去的。

4. Don't be so miserable!
别这愁眉苦脸的。

5. Cheer up! things will work out for the best。
高兴点儿。事情会有好结果的。

6. Take heart - we'll find a way out。
振作起来,我们会有办法的。

7. Keep trying! Don't give up the ship。
继续努力!别轻易放弃!

8. Loosen up! It's not worth getting upset about。
放松点儿!不值得为这件事苦恼。

9. Hang in there. Things will get better。
坚持住,情况会好起来。

10. Keep smiling! Things will calm down。
乐观一点,事情会平息下来的。

11. It's not as bad as all that。
事情没有那么糟。

12. Things are never as bad as they seem。
事情往往不像看上去的那么糟。

13. Win a few, lose a few. That's life。
有得也有失,生活就是如此。

14. Let's look on the bright side。
我们来看看它好的一面。

15. Every cloud has a silver lining。
再黑暗的地方也有一线光明。

16. When god closes a door, he opens a window。
山不转水转。

17. Tomorrow is another day。
有明天就有希望。

18. Stop carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders。
别太操心了,没有你地球照样转。(carry the weight of the world on one's shoulders: 自以为重任在肩。)

经典生活中的英语谏言


1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,
原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
1. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music.
Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。
当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
2.Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand.
It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry
or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。
朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。
3. Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow
everywhere. Friends can give you strength that lasts.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。
4. I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。
5. Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
6.If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold
something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people
are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢
一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
7. We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone,
and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是
一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
8. One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness,
you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and
cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,
还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
9. When you are young, you may want several love experiences.  But as time goes on, you will
realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know,
to forgive and to love.  All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉
中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的
在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。
10. When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory,
we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel
forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up.  And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
11. If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each stitch has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。
12.Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the
things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱
一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。
13. I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. 
Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone,
changes are all around.  Then I step backward and watch it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人
就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
14. Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go
up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
15. Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon
the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,
不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,
就是爱情本身。16. We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves.  And then begin to
love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love.
Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,
我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,
很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
17. Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love?  We always think that love is very heavy,
heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly
realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The
deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
18. In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness.

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个
都没有了,她只有不幸。
19. If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not
reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. Or else she only has misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,
需要的不是同情,而是明白。
20. An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. 
A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

21.我知道这世上有人在等我,但我不知道我在等谁,为了这个,我每天都非常快乐。
21. I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is but I feel happy
every day for this.

22.一生至少该有一次,为了某个人而忘了自己,不求有结果,不求同行,不求曾经拥有,甚至不求你爱我。
只求在我最美的年华里,遇到你。
22. In your life, there will be at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result,
no company, no ownership nor love. I just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.

23.我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖,什么都可以接受。相反,我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过
程,知道自己最重要的是什么,知道不重要的东西是什么。而后,做一个纯简的人。
23. I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept
everything. Conversely, I think it's a selection process, knowing what's the most important and what's
the least. Then be a simple man.

24.当你的心真的在痛,眼泪快要流下来的时候,那就赶快抬头看看,这片曾经属于我们的天空;当天依旧
是那么的广阔,云依旧那么的潇洒,那就不应该哭,因为我的离去,并没有带走你的世界。
24. When you feel hurt and your tears are going to drop. Please look up and look at the sky. If the sky
is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leaving doesn't take away the world that
belongs to you.



1.If you can make a reasonable living doing what you love, DO WHAT YOU LOVE. You may not get rich,
but you’ll get to do what you love, and that’s priceless.
如果你能以你喜欢做的事为职业,尽情投身其中吧。你可能不会赚很多钱,但做你想做的事是无价的。

2.Don’t merely exist… LIVE. Do not become overly comfortable with TV and YouTube as your primary
sources of entertainment. Go places. Try new things. Follow your curiosities and passions. Take chances.
Don’t let fear and complacency stop you from a truly rewarding life.
不要只是生存在这个世界上——要努力生活。别把电视和YouTube当成主要的娱乐项目。去旅游、尝试新事物、
追随你的好奇心和激情、冒险。别让惧怕和自满阻碍了你本该精彩无限的人生。

3.The biggest disappointments in life are the result of misplaced expectations. Tempering unrealistic
expectations of how something ‘should be’ will greatly reduce unnecessary frustration.
人生最大的失望是抱有不该有的期待。减少理所当然的期望会大大减少不必要的沮丧。

4.Life is significantly easier when you’re honest with yourself and others. This doesn’t mean you should
be rude and inconsiderate, but it’s better to be upfront when you have to rather than concealing things
and letting them fester.
当你诚恳对己对人时,生活会更简单。这并不表示你要表现粗鲁、考虑不周,但当不得不面对时,把事情烂在心
里还不如坦诚相待。

5.Buy fewer things. When you feel the need to splurge, buy knowledge and EXPERIENCES instead.
少买东西。当你想挥霍时,那就“买”知识和经验吧。

6. Avoid fatty, sugary foods. Eat your vegetables. Stick to a healthy balanced diet.
少吃油腻、糖分高的食物,多吃蔬菜。保持健康的饮食习惯。

7. Invest time and energy in yourself every day. When you invest in yourself, you can never lose, and over
time you will change the trajectory of your life. You are simply the product of what you know. The more time
and energy you spend acquiring pertinent knowledge, the more control you have over your life.
花时间和精力打造自己。投资自己永远不会有损失,而且经年累月你的人生轨迹就会改变。你是自己所知所想的产物。
你花更多的时间学习相关知识,就更能掌控自己人生。

8. Learn some basic, modern survivability skills – how to change a tire, jumpstart a car, safely bust a car window
if you’re stuck, render first aid, etc.
学习基本的、现实的求生技能——怎么换轮胎、怎么发动汽车、当被困车内时怎么破窗以及急救方法等等。

9. Help your fellow neighbor. The whole “what goes around comes around” concept is the truth.Life is a circle
that eventually comes back around. So be polite, be courteous.
帮助你周围的人。“十年风水轮流转”这句话是很有道理的。生活是个圈,你总会有落到低谷的时候。
所以礼貌些、谦恭些。

10.You actually die twice in this world. Once when you stop breathing, and a second time several years
later when somebody says your name for the last time. So do things that matter; leave a legacy.
Time is running out.
你实际上会“死亡”两次。一次是心跳停止时,另一次是若干年后你的名字被最后一次提起时。所以做有意义
的事吧,留下宝贵的遗产,时间已经不多。


双语:20几岁必需明白的15件人生大事
1. So, You Graduated College
1. 从大学毕业
This is definitely a milestone for your 20s. Throw your hat in the air!
这是你20几岁人生的里程碑。将学位帽抛向天空吧!

2. You Start Eyeing a Career
2.开始寻找自己的职业
It's time to trade in part-time wages for benefits and a salary。
是时候结束打零工的生活,开始找份稳定的工作了。

3. You Take Rejection With Grace
3. 优雅的接受拒绝
Not every company will hire you, and that's OK. One door closing just leads to another opening。
不是每一个公司都会雇用你。这没有关系。一扇门的关闭意味着另一扇的敞开。

4. 401(k) Becomes More Important Than Designer Items
4. 社保比名牌更重要
At this moment, you realize retirement has of higher importance than a pair of Louboutins or a
Louis Vuitton bag。
这个时候,你会意识到退休比一双Louboutins的鞋,或LV的包要重要很多。

5. You Realize Everything Your Parents Have Done For You
5. 你会明白父母为你所做的一切
Call your mom and dad back — they'll appreciate hearing your voice. After all, no one has a bigger fan
than their parents, and they deserve some thanks for putting up with you all these years。
给爸爸妈妈回个电话,他们听到你的声音会特别高兴。毕竟,任何人都不会比父母更爱你。他们养育了你多年,
感谢是应该的。

6. Mastering Time Management Is a Must
6. 必须合理安排时间
Eating breakfast and checking your email at the same time? No problem。
吃早饭的同时检查电子邮件?没问题!

7. You Haven't Given Up on Your Dreams
7. 永不放弃梦想
No matter how big or small。
梦想无论大小,永不放弃。

8. People Think You're Old, Because You Go to Bed Early
8. 别人认为你老了,因为你睡得早了
Instead of hitting the town for a crazy night, you opt out for a full night's rest. Early bird gets the worm!
与其去市里疯玩一晚,不如好好休息。记住,早起的鸟儿有虫吃。

9. You're Doing What You Love
9. 你正在做的,就是自己热爱的
Whether you've landed your dream job or are doing a hobby on the side, being able to do what you love
is an achievement in itself。
无论你是正在做自己梦寐以求的工作,还是把兴趣当成一种兼职,能够做自己喜欢的事情,本身就是一种成功。

10. You Finally Know What Work-Life Balance Means
10. 你最终明白了如何平衡工作与生活
Just because you're working doesn't mean you don't have a life outside the office。
工作并不是意味着你没有了办公室以外的生活。

11.You Pay Yourself First
11. 自力更生
Rather than splurging at the local mall, your rent, electricity bills, and student loans are a few of the
things you want to prioritize. Leftover money can be thrown into a savings account, because there's
nothing like some interest to get extra cash in your pocket!
与去商场挥霍相比,自己的房租、电费、学生贷款成为了优先考虑的东西。剩下的钱会被存进银行,
因为这可以让自己多获得一部分利息。

12. Happy Hour Becomes an Important Event
12.欢乐时光变得很重要
Whether for networking or de-stressing, it's always 5 o'clock somewhere。
无论是社交还是减压,都变成了欢乐时光。

13. Vacation Funds Become Key
13. 度假基金很重要
You know that trip you always wanted to take? Now there's room in your budget for it (if you've planned
ahead, of course)。
还记得你一直很想去的那个地方吗?现在你可以为旅行做预算了(当然你必须提前为旅行做计划才行)。

14. There's No Question Who Your True Friends Are
14. 十分确定谁才是自己真正的朋友
It might be time to sort out who's really there for you and who's not。
现在是时候分辨出谁才是自己真正的朋友,谁不是。

15. People Come to You For Advice
15.人们开始寻求你的建议
Why yes, you do have some words of wisdom。
为什么呢?因为现在开始你已经有了些人生感悟了。